I Don’t Believe My Dad and His Partner Will Have Any Children

Some people end up getting along with their adult children and others don’t. Sometimes parents don’t get along with their children for good reason and others don’t. I don’t get along let alone talk to my biological parents for very good reason. They are stuck in a toxic way of life and I decided not to be apart of that multigenerational trauma cycle. That being said I both want to be a parent and I have realistic expectations of what my role will be and what my children will become. Becoming a parent is a risk in more ways than one. There’s a risk that your child will choose to become a harmful individual despite you doing your best by them as a parent and then there’s a risk that your child will become the opposite of what you want them to be and that can be a good thing. If your expecting your child to be exactly like you and agree with everything you say then you shouldn’t become a parent. Part of the beauty of becoming a parent is that your child will become an individual and ...